One of the most common questions we deal with is women asking how to get my husband to fall in love with me again. In some cases, the women are mistaken – and the husbands doing a poor job of showing their love.
Unfortunately, though, many have a marriage in serious trouble and are in a marriage where the husband has fallen out of love with them.
The problem in some of these marriages is what I call “marital drift”. Once two lovers get married they have a tendency to no longer prioritize their mate. It is understandable, the pressures of a home, job, children come along, family issues, can all be overwhelming.
Humans have a tendency to take care of the urgent and not necessarily the important.
Perhaps the worst part is that the marital drift happens slowly, over time. It is likely that neither partner realizes it while it is happening until one day one or both of you realize that you are living with someone who is practically a stranger.
And regardless of what you might see women do who are not married, those who are seldom have much “extra curricular” activity with “strangers”. This can alienate the husbands love even more.
So how can you get your husband to fall in love with you again?
You may be tempted to either want to solve this all by yourself or even be willing to accept most or all of the blame for the marital drift. Maybe you immersed yourself with your children and their activities, seemingly ignoring your husband.
That is not fair, though. Marriage is supposed to be a partnership and you both have to take either credit or blame for whatever happens.
What you can do is to evaluate your priorities. Maybe you volunteer too much at school, church or even for extra tasks at work. Make “save my marriage” your number one priority.
Shock the heck out of your husband by NOT doing something you always do and tell him that you have set aside the time for him instead. Maybe you go out for a movie (which may have been forever ago that you last did).
If the last time you danced together was when “the hustle” was all the rage, then the good news is that you can find places again today where you can dance like it was the Seventies again.
Pick something to do, schedule the time and make it happen. The results can be amazing.
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Mr. Scott has enjoyed assisting people with relationship and marriage issues for many years now. Please note that he may occasionally receive some form of compensation when recommending other experts services or products.